Remembrance

Remembrance, In Honor of Chelsea King and Amber Dubois

Our sleepy little town was rocked recently by the murders of two bright, blue-eyed young ladies, Chelsea King and Amber Dubois. Their deaths catalyzed this community and the nation, sparking action and motivation, and an outpouring of love for the families and friends who knew these sparkling spirits.

Throughout town, there are blue ribbons tied to trees, in remembrance of their blue eyes and powerful existences. Their candlelight vigils drew over 1,000 people each, and Chelsea’s memorial service, which was packed to the hilt, drew over 5,000 people—many who knew her, many who didn’t—to celebrate her life.

Businesses in the community donated lighting, a sound system, printing, and over 8,000 sunflowers to the event. The takeaway from the service was a packet of sunflower seeds that said, “With your help, Chelsea’s Light will never dim.”

Upon the arrest of a registered and convicted sex offender, who is a suspect in both cases, Chelsea’s family immediately began a plight to effect change in our legal system. They have the backing of a multitude of government officials and everyday people whose voices are finally being heard, which, hopefully, will result in stricter sentences for these criminals.

Chelsea and Amber’s families chose to open themselves up to the love and condolences of their community, the nation, and the world, and accept the positive energy of millions of people, as they trudge through their difficult paths. The power of these messages and the amazing amount of support they have received is a testament to the force of the human spirit, and how, when we realize that we are all connected, we can collectively effect change in one another’s lives.

The soul our community has exposed brings me hope. I am saddened that it is instigated as a result of these tragedies, but the outpouring of love and tenderness that I have witnessed inspires me. I will never forget how I have been affected.

There are websites dedicated to Amber and Chelsea, to keep their memories alive:

A quote from Virgil—found on Chelsea’s mirror at home—is a resounding reminder that, together, we can effectively create a world that is worthy of living in.

“They can because they think they can.”

What about you?

How do you honor the lives of people you loved, who have passed away?

What have you done to keep their spirits alive?

Do you have traditions to honor the memories of your dearly departed?

I invite you to post your stories, trials and triumphs on the blog or feel free to send them to gaiagroove@gaiagreetings.com

To submit ideas and suggestions to reform our system and better protect our children, or for those who wish to join efforts with 75^th District Assembly Member Nathan Fletcher and the King family, call 858.689.6290 or email Assemblymember.fletcher@assembly.ca.gov

Remember.

What does gaia mean?

What is this word—gaia?

For mythology buffs, Gaia (guy-uh) represents the Earth Goddess, Mother Earth—protector and nurturer of life.

There is also the gaia hypothesis—an ecological hypothesis proposing that the biosphere and the physical components of the Earth are closely integrated to form a complex interacting system that maintains the climatic and biogeochemical conditions on Earth in a preferred homeostasis.

IN OTHER WORDS, everything is connected, and has an effect on everything else.

To ME, it’s a philosophy—the idea that all of us are connected.

I believe we are here to educate each other, to help one another, to spread positivity, and to love as much as possible. It’s both energetic and also very tangible. Our choices have a ripple effect, that impact the world at large. We need to understand that small choices have big consequences.

Because, as a society, we have such a direct effect on the environment, this is the best way I know how to illustrate this.

An old friend of mine (whom I hadn’t seen in years) and I decided to attend a festival together. There had been a flurry of incidents prior to this trip that lead up to my ultimate “aha moment,” but the biggest influence on my decision to reduce my plastic footprint stemmed from a conversation with my friend.

“Plastic is evil,” she said, “Every piece of plastic that has ever been manufactured still exists on the planet today.”

She proceeded to tell my about the Pacific Gyre, aka the Garbage Patch. It’s a traffic-jam of man-made plastic, larger than the size of the US, brought there on the ocean currents from the beaches on our planet. Today, the plastic continues to gather there, gaining in size day after day after day.




The entire eco-system is affected. As the plastic is broken down by photosynthesis, it decomposes into tiny toxic pieces. These pieces look like plankton, which are ingested by ocean creatures and birds. The animals either end up dead on our beaches or they cycle back into our food stream, and eventually, back into us, with high-levels of toxicity caused by the reaction of the sun hitting the plastic. The garbage patch is so large and unmanageable due to its slushy and grandiose content and location, it is likely nothing can ever be done to improve it.

I was inspired by this video. Immediately, I stopped purchasing plastic water bottles and began using recycled grocery bags every time I went shopping. It has even motivated me to bring lunch to work more often, since I generate way too much waste if I get lunch “to-go” too regularly.

Beyond the day-to-day stuff, I was inspired to create and share my knowledge with others—children and adults—through an “Environmental Stewardship” exhibit. Within a week, I had collected enough plastic from six different households to create a full-size plastic man—who became part of the installation. I was proud of my sculpture but even more so, I was honored to share the story, knowing that it was possible that plastic man’s existence had a long-term effect on one of the show-goers, just as my friend’s story had on me.



This philosophy—that ALL IS ONE—it goes so far above and beyond our relationship to the environment. It translates to all we do and all we are—community, philanthropy, volunteerism, and connecting—on a real human level—with others around us. The struggle of our families and friends today—it’s creating an opportunity for us to relate to one another on a level unlike ever before. I'm excited about the chance to make this a priority in my life. I hope you are too.